Use child MDI frame menu items in preference to the parent frame ones.

Use child MDI frame menu items in preference to the parent frame ones.

Look for the item with the given ID in the child frame menu bar first, before
looking in the parent frame menu bar. This ensures that if an item is disabled
by the parent frame but then reenabled by the child one, it still generates
commands as expected instead of being completely ignored.

See #14314.

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