options: don't accept "error=" for -f and -r

* src/getargs.c (warning_argmatch, warnings_argmatch, WARNINGS_ARGMATCH):
New.
Use them for -W/--warning.
They are copied from...
(flag_argmatch, flags_argmatch, FLAGS_ARGMATCH): these.
Simplify by removing the support for "error".
* tests/input.at (Invalid options): New.
* TODO (Laxism in Bison invocation arguments): Remove.