#ifdef __APPLE_API_PRIVATE
#define SOF_NOTIFYCONFLICT 0x400 /* notify that a bind was done on a port already in use */
#endif
+#define SOF_UPCALLCLOSEWAIT 0x800 /* block on close until an upcall returns */
int so_usecount; /* refcounting of socket use */;
int so_retaincnt;
u_int32_t so_filteruse; /* usecount for the socket filters */